Friendship day

Whatsup there?...
When a YEAR later I ask this question you should answer right?😂 I know it was about me! I won't say I was occupied or something ,(though I was😅)cause if I had tried I would have wrote. It basically says I am lazy😢.

But once a while even a lazy person writes. Today I am getting so many wishes even from the people I am not in touch with. So how about writing friendship day? The concept of friendship 'day' originated from western countries. Wikipedia gives so many confusing staments from which I am unable to draw a conclusion on who has started this celebration, but one thing is clear that the official declaration of world friendship day is proposed on 30th July 1958 by World Friendship Crusade . In 2011 General Assembly of United Nations officially declared 30th July as World Friendship day. Different countries follow different dates as friendship day. We Indians celebrate on first Sunday of August. People say it's purpose was to recognise true friendship and differentiate it from Valentine's day. People celebrate it by exchanging gifts, greeting cards and ofcourse wishes.

The concept of friendship day arrived to wish a great strength of one's life, *friends*. We keep our friends in different circle. Very few enter in that close circle. And those close circled friends are called best buddies😋(Those are same idiots who will make sure they won't wish you on friendship day. ^en huccha NING wish madakke^{have I gone mad to wish you}kind of people.) They play important role in your life. 40% of you are because of them. I like the quote of Russian revolutionary Communist Vladimir Lenin which says' Show me who your friends are and I will tell you what you are'. Which is basically true because your thinking is partially derived from people you are surrounded with. Choosing your friend is very very very important. It is like making connection in splitsvilla(a reality show where making right connection will help you to win the show), a right one will help you always.

Coming to me, I always had my friends on my side. In my good, happiest, sad or worse days, they were always there. To fill confidence, to criticize, to make me happy,  to help me know my limitations and strengths. Today everyone is busy, the contact is minimal. But when they meet I can feel the same strong bond.(they still tease me in the same manner😂).

Sharing gifts on friendship day is not something I believe in(Are! I can gift them anytime. Why only friendship day?). But liked the idea of one of my high school classmate. She told me that she gifts are not purchased one. She gives the thing which she used before. Like a crafted diary of which only 2 pages are used. Or a pen which is liked by another friend of her. Even her friends do the same.(she told me this long back. I don't know if they still follow it😊)

Friendship day is indeed a great day for those misunderstanding to end, for new starts, for love and for old good memories. It is a day to say each other that they are greatful to have a friend who is always there. It is a day to remember those sweet hearts who always wanted best to us. It is a day where one can pause the busy schedule, remember the days well spent and smile a little. It is a day to pay tribute those selfless beautiful souls. Cause friend is the only one who knows What you exactly are.(Even your mom wouldn't know all your secrets😂)

What more I can say? Happy friendship day😊

P.s- All those who dint wish me! It's OK. Let's celebrate it every day😉 ek din to bahut kam hoga hame😋

With love
Vaishnavi

A small preach😊

Roaring hearts
Blind eyes
Winded ears
-On one hand
Joyful souls
Smiling faces
Loving people
-On the other
This year indeed was great for me. Ups and downs, heights and lows, smiles and cries. I don't wanna highlight the ONLY happy or ONLY sad part. They were equal this year. Not EXACTLY equal. But yeah! Almost they were. Did you learn any lesson? I did. Lot of it. If I summarize the whole years details- there are people who love you AS YOU ARE, get along with them. There are people who don't like you, stay away from them. Negativity enters your head before positivity. Don't be upset. They are part of your Head. It's up to you to listen them.
P.s. There is one more person in the world whom you forget every now and then. YOU. Enjoy your own company sometimes. Take your care. Believe me it feels great🙂
"AND" I wrote it. I took that picture. Never ever dare to ask from where I copied.
Will be back soon.
Loads of love and happy new year

#11 My people

Hi there,

           What's up? Long time,no see😜 yeah yeah. I know I am the one who disappear every now and then. You know? People used to ask me ages ago if I dint write anything for more than a month. Now no one will ask. Cause even they got used to my procrastinating behavior. Wait! Am I using proper word here? It's procrastination or I am being truant? You should tell me that. As far as I know, I just have few readers and all of them know me personally(if my prediction is not true, you are free to comment on my comment box, I will definitely retort back). So you can give me the feedbacks in WhatsApp,facebook or when we meet. I would love to get feedbacks even if it is negative. They help me to improve, analyse and helps to occupy most of my time in thinking(free from bugs💃hihi)

         Actually, I thought I would do some chit chats with you people today. Yeah, I would have told you about my nature. But as soon as my sister and brother read it, they will immediately start calling it as self obsession for LIFE TIME. In order to avoid such risk I decided to blog on whatever comes to my mind(I know I have highly fluctuating mind)👻

           If you people read my  earlier blogs you might know that I was perusing my degree. Now I am done with it. Yes. I am a Bcom graduate now😎(There was a joke in fb- as I have got degree now, thermometer isn't the only degree without brain😂). Lot of things changed after that. People who were inseparable part of my life got separated for higher education or for job. Yet some of them are in touch. I have also moved to Bangalore for my articleship( part of Charted Accountantancy course popularly known as CA). I stay at my aunt's place and fight with my cousins after my office😋

            I was also offered a transfer to my home town but I rejected. I love my work also my seniors who are more like old pals. That reminds me of one of my seniors in particular about whom I MUST write. His name is KBH. He always put me to think how sweet a human being can be. His will power, determination, Dept of knowledge, thirst to learn, his motivational speeches and care towards others always memorise me. I always love to spend time with him so that I can fight with him and sleep peacefully😝(I never slept without fighting with him)

            Oh! In the name of chit chat I described my favorite person from BANGALORE (if I won't stress that word,some people will kill me when I go back to my native👻)

             My Anna says whenever I blog I normally have message to tell in that. This time I would love to suggest a video which contains the same message I wanna tell in this blog. It's a short movie of 27 odd mins which I loved the most. Here is the link-
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=CmK91AxPA1A
And people who can't open the link please don't scold me. I have minimum knowledge on these things. Rather you can search as JAYANAGARA 4TH BLOCK short movie.

On that note I am signing off🗨

Will be back soon🏃

With love
Vaishnavi

Sparrow kingdom

Hi reader,
            My best friend sent me a story just now which I loved a lot and felt worth sharing. Hopefully you like it:-)

            There was tiny multi talented, too kind and sweet sparrow living happily in her kingdom. She had her own story from which she trapped under love blindly. She badly wanted to stand up in life answer all her sorrows. She had dream to build a nest by her own. She planned well. She did her foundation too. She even took engineer coaching for latter construction.But Later new birds entered her kingdom. Meantime she was in need of a best friend with whom she could share everything. Fortunately she found too. Now new birds entered created chaos, she was badly hurt when many new birds pointed her behavior. But that poor soul accepted every hurt still went behind friendship. When she couldn't resist the pain she went to nearby lake and cried secretly. When a parrot tried to get close to that sparrow, she had decided that she is not going to allow anyone to fill her friend's place and all attempts of parrot went futile. Sparrow did everything possible to keep her friends happy. She had realms of pain, sufferings even if she acts she didn't. Now important thing is all this reflected in her dream to build nest. She was trying but not with peace of mind. She didn't had great support, and that mood and zeal. Every other thing declined her. Thing hurt me was from Every attempt she didn't grow but declined. She forgot to think about her happiness while she did for others. Amidst all this she forgot her dream is nest. If u ask me about that sparrow she is capable to do nest in her individual capacity. She is afraid of constraints , forthcoming. I wish sparrow would understand her self needs and deeds. Because while you expect others to be happy there might be someone who wish for your happiness.

           I think,by now, parrot is a great friend of sparrow and sparrow is understanding things:-)7 P.S- This story is written by my friend Ramganesh.

#9 And this is what happened

Hi all,
          It has been a long time since I wrote anything. Few months actually! All the friends of mine(must mention 'the non readers' too!!) asked me why my blogs are not coming up. Laziness is a correct word which defines me I guess. Anyway I'm sorry for not writing. I'll try to keep writing.
            Law class always fascinates us. It might be because the boring subject or might be because of patience of sir who 'tolerate' us almost 1 hour a day.

            This is a story about sir and my best friends. Ok straight away to the story.

            I was late to class today. Couldn't attend 2 classes because of lack of information. So when I came my friends were there in canteen. I went there and they told me what happened in last 2 class after knowing why I couldn't attend. Then one of my friend remembered something and started laughing. When I asked the reason she pointed towards another to tell me the reason. Conversation went on-
Me: what happened?
Friend: we are having free food.
Me: how?o_O
Friend:  You remember we were given a work of sealing some coupons.
Me: yes. Those were free meal coupons if I'm not wrong.
Friend: yes. We asked a sheet of it with law sir:-P with a authority that we helped him.
Another friend: Infact she was shouting(with food in her mouth)
Me: he gave?
Friend: No. He scolded us initially. And told us to get out from department.
Me:*silently listening*
Friend: It was lunch time. After coming out we realised Atleast 2 coupons would do. So we walked in again and started asking again.
Me: He gave?
Friend: He pretended like he won't give. Then we pretended sad started walking out. Then he called us.
Me: I can guess rest of the things. How shameless you are. You people will get stomach ache today.
Another friend: we knew you would tel this. If you were there you would have pulled us out of department telling you would give us treat today. Thank god you were not there.
Friend: See girl. It's not about you have money or not. It's just to experience the free food once and irritate sir. If we won't do such things, how can we expect sir to remember us. Chill
Then I was speechless. By the way, this sir is our law sir and I wrote Half of the blog while sitting in law class.
Now you can guess why law classes are fascinating:-P

With love
Vaishnavi

#8 Memories of first rain....

Hello everyone,

            I know that I am  becoming rare to my own blog! Not writing anything from ages. But I feel like I am going through my important point of life( In simple, I have exams and i want to acheive something this time). So please pardon me.

        Anyway, I am one of the big fan of rain. Whatever work I will be doing, when it rains I excuse myself from all the work and come out or open window to watch rain. Even in my busy schedule it never failed to get my attention. The memories they leave in the form of droplets will take me directly to my childhood days( The story of droplets and my childhood is bit long. I will tell you about it some other day). So after the rain I take out my camera(my favorite work) and click some pics. Here are some random clicks.( I can also say it's to fill the long gap of not writing anything)  Hopefully you will like it:-)

Actions are more important than mere plans.

Hi reader,
            Long time since I wrote anything. Sorry I actually can't write for few days. To help me out my senior, mentor,well wisher, awesome writer and of course a good  friend Arjun bhat has agreed to give a guest post. Here is a copy paste of his writing. Enjoy:-)

Hello guys this is Arjun Bhat of xpresstoimpress.blogspot.in doing a guest post in my friend vaishnavi’s blog.

       Actions are more important than mere plans

          In life we tend to have a big ‘to do list’, everyone aspires to become something which is most attached to them, they want to become something thinking that it would give them immense happiness.

            At a very young age, the list consists of many crazy things, which would give a thrill in doing it, but as years pass, the list gets refined, we eliminate things that seem ridiculous and only achievable stuffs are left back.

          In many cases, after a certain time, the whole of the list gets replaced by routines. We tend to give up what we wanted to be in the past.

         If we ask the question, why has it happened? The answer is simple, we just made the ‘to do lists’ but didn’t take any proper supporting actions to fulfill the needs which was expected for the items there.

We take too long to plans stuffs.

         If we want to get a good physique, we think a lot about the gym, the equipment there, the food habit, the great body which we would want to build and the plans go on, what we fail to do is: start exercising, which is the most basic step here.

           Similar things keep on happening that alters our ‘to do list’ easily, what we have to start is, to take action more swiftly than just keep on planning.

        The journey to any destination starts with a step; it is for us to focus more on the starting of any task rather than focusing on ending it.

Only the thing that has begun comes to an end! How can things end without even beginning it?